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Be the Lead on Stage, on Screen, in Life.

by Joey Freddy Larsen
Jul 21, 2025

What it really means to be a lead actor and why it starts long before you book the role


TL;DR:

🌟 Feature: To be a lead on stage and screen, you must first be the lead in your life

🧰 Your Actor Toolkit: Affirmations, Checklist, Tracker, and Agent Relationship Training

🏆 Client Shoutout: Jim Canale shoots his first audition with Actors Audition Club

🎬 Upcoming Workshop: Your Next Lead Role - Register for FREE now

🎤 Monologue of the Month Club: This month’s challenge theme and prize details

💥 Quote of the Week and P.S.

 

🌟 FEATURE: To Be a Lead on Stage and Screen, You Must First Be the Lead in Your Life

There is something special about a true Lead Actor.

 

When they walk onto a set or step onstage, everyone feels it.

 

They hold the room with presence.

 

They make bold choices and take full responsibility for the outcome.

 

They can be trusted with a scene, with a cast, with the weight of a story.

 

That is what it means to lead.

 

And it does not start when the cameras roll.

 

It starts long before that.

 

It starts with who you choose to be, every single day.

 

Because how can you expect to be a Lead Actor if you are not already the lead in your own life?

 

I saw this firsthand on set with Jason Momoa.


I was working on a shoot where Jason was the star.


And the moment he arrived on set, the entire energy shifted.


Not because he stormed in barking orders.


Not because he tried to control everything.


But because of how he carried himself.


He was relaxed, present, fully tuned in to every person on set.


He greeted the crew, made people laugh, and led with this grounded, generous energy that made you feel like you were part of something bigger.


He was not "on" all the time. He was not trying to impress anyone.


But when it was time to shoot, he switched on and led the scene with total commitment and power.


That is Lead Actor energy.


Not forcing.


Not performing.


Just being.


And that presence, that ability to own the moment and the room, is what made people trust him, follow him, and want to rise to his level.

 

Imagine a ship in stormy seas.


The crew is panicked. The waves are high. The wind is brutal.


And at the helm stands the captain, clear-eyed, steady, unshaken.


Not because they are not afraid.


But because they made a decision to lead.


That is what leadership looks like on set.


And that is what it can look like in your life.

 

So what does that mean for you?


It means taking radical responsibility for everything in your control.


It means showing up fully prepared, not when it is convenient, but because it is who you are.


It means owning your habits, your mindset, and your energy before you ever get cast.


Because the truth is, casting does not make you a Lead Actor.


Your daily decisions do.

Want to book the roles Lead Actors book?


Want to do what Lead Actors do?


Start by being the Lead.


•    How does the future version of you walk into a room?
•    How do they see themselves, their craft, their life?
•    What do they no longer tolerate?
•    What habits, actions, and thoughts did they adopt?


When you act like a Lead, you naturally do what a Lead does.


And when you do that consistently, you will have the opportunities and life that come with it.

This is not about chasing top billing, more lines, or a bigger trailer.


It is about deciding to be the kind of artist, human, and leader that can carry a story, a set, a room, and your own life.


Your career will rise to the level of who you are willing to become.

 

🧰 YOUR ACTOR TOOLKIT


🎧 Audition Affirmations — Reset your mindset before every self-tape
www.actorsauditionclub.com/yes


📋 Audition Checklist — Never miss a step with your audition prep
www.actorsauditionclub.com/checklist


📈 Audition Tracker — Track every audition and follow-up like a pro
www.actorsauditionclub.com/tracker


🤝 Improve Your Agent Relationship — Free training to build stronger industry partnerships
www.actorsauditionclub.com/agent

 

🏆 NEW CLIENT SHOUTOUT: JIM CANALE

💥 Big shoutout to Jim Canale, who shot his very first audition with us this week. He worked with Brandon Knox at our Toronto studio.


Jim came to us as a referral from longtime client Chris Gleason. Thank you, Chris, for sending great people our way.


Here is what Jim had to say in his ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Google review:


“For my first time there Brandon was really good in his approach assisting me with my choices and stakes in the 3 scenes we did together. There was a good flow and chemistry with him and I would recommend him highly. If you are serious about your acting career then be serious on your auditions. He had the tape edited and sent to me and my agent before I got home. Great experience. Cheers 🍻”


🎯 Referral Reminder:


Refer a friend who books their first session with us and you get $20 off your next session. Win-Win!!!


Just make sure they mention your name when they book.
Welcome aboard, Jim!

 

🎬 UPCOMING WORKSHOP: Your Next Lead Role

 

🎯 Your Next Lead Role — Master the 4-Act Monologue Mastery Playbook & Film Your Strongest Performance Yet


If you are ready to grow from unseen to unforgettable, join us for this powerful workshop.


I will take you inside the exact 4-Act Playbook we use in Monologue of the Month Club, the proven process that helps actors stand out, land auditions, and create career-changing momentum.


Here is what you will learn:


🎭 ACT 1 — Choose It: How to select monologues that showcase your essence and align with the roles you want to book.


📝 ACT 2 — Break It Down: Storytelling, text analysis, and unlocking the emotional beats to make the material your own.


🎯 ACT 3 — Rehearse It: The rehearsal method that transforms good performances into unforgettable ones, with tools to sharpen your delivery and deepen your connection.


🎥 ACT 4 — Perform It: How to deliver your monologue in a way that commands attention on camera, on stage, and in the room.


💥 Workshop Investment:

•    Regular Price: $97 FREE
•    Join the Early Bird List now and get in FREE
•    Monologue of the Month Club Members can also join for FREE


✅ Master your monologues.

✅ Get seen. Get remembered. Grow your career.


👉 Join the Early Bird List now:
www.actorsauditionclub.com/lead

 

🎤 MONOLOGUE OF THE MONTH CLUB


🎭 This Month’s Challenge is Open!

The theme for this month is Monologues of Power and Ambition.
Enter your strongest monologue that captures boldness, drive, and commanding presence for a chance to win prizes and be recognized for your best work.


🎯 Every winner gets featured in the Monologue Vault, our exclusive members-only collection of standout performances, and earns a shoutout on the Inside the Audition Podcast.


✅ Not yet a member? Join us and sharpen your skills with:


•    A new monologue every month
•    Monthly challenges with prizes
•    Live coaching and community support
•    Access to the Monologue Vault


👉 Join the Club → www.monologueclub.com


💥 LEAD ACTOR QUOTE OF THE WEEK


“A leader’s job is to get the best out of others — and that starts by being the best version of yourself.” — John Wooden


As a lead actor, your job is not just to deliver your lines.


It is to elevate the scene, bring out the best in your castmates, and set the tone for the crew and the production.


It all starts with how you show up — in the work, in the room, and in your life.

 

And…ACTION!

 

- Joey Freddy Larsen

 

💌 P.S. Forward this to a fellow actor who needs to be reminded of the leader inside them.


Because when you lead, others rise with you.

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